I actually started reading your thread awhile back... You always push me to think about my w's feelings and I wondered if you were always that way with your H or if that is something that grew from your changes.
Maybe you could just link your old story on a new thread (since it's hard to find) and allow people to read and digest at their own pace? Maybe ask some questions....
.... Like how did you stay so d@mn patient for three years?!?
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.