You kind of threw it in her face there. That's not going to make her feel good about interacting with you. Better to let that lie -- leave the ticket on the car and don't say anything. She will do and say what she wants and you can't control that. Catching her in a lie and rubbing her nose in it doesn't help your cause.
She really doesn't owe you partnership until she tells you she wants to reconcile. As to whether she owes you honesty? Unfortunately if she tells you she wants out of the relationship she doesn't owe you that either. It would be nice if she were honest for herself, and you have a right not to want to interact with someone who is not honest. That's your choice. You can go dark if the dishonesty bothers you. If she wants to interact, tell her that honesty is important to you and let her decide how to behave -- but be prepared that she may not want to be honest with you right now. It is your choice how you want to react to that.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
