DBing against OW...?????

[imthemom]

Ill be with ya MZ..at 1am...
I filed...after a month of him harrassing me about signing papers with a paralegal and wanting me to "tell" him how to divorce me, i kep saying " this is not what i want, so im not going to help you...you want the divorce, you do it without me...and lueing to me when i asked if there was someone else...then i caught him with her in our bed. I filed the next day, i let my ego make that decision and i regret it..but financially i needed to do it, my boys and i are living hand to mouth while he is just fine and spending money on this OW.
One bad decision after another, on both our parts..but the fact he down plays her..and then continues it i dont understand...gawd, say your in love with her!!..i could take that easier i think...