My achievements! Please post cheers! :)

[2chiquitos]

This past Nov I worked my 180 to a T! I learned A LOT about myself. I realized that I was not demonstrating love correctly to H. I began praising him, complimenting him, appreciating him. Praising him in front of others (he liked this!).
Since then he comes over more often, calls to talk about work!, isn't as attached to his cell, initiating family outings again! BUT BUT BUT I found out he is not always spending the night at his parents. Today my 3yo son said they went to lunch with OW! (He says it's not true :-/)
When I approached him about it he said that he is staying with friends, that OW and him rarely see each other since he spends most of his time with kids, also he said "I wouldn't lose sleep if I NEVER saw her again..." (interesting, I thought) I have a feeling OW is the one that's keeping the connection between them (whatever's left of it).
However, he said he didn't leave me because he was in love with someone else, but because he wasn't happy with us. So now what?? I'm doing the 180 not just with him but with everyone. I've improved my relationship with my family and friends, AND his family. I GAL and it's great, but I want him home!! I have to understand it's been 1mos of 180 and we're going on 2mos at the end of Dec. I need encouragement! DESPERATELY!!