What helped me was to look at how I was expressing my love to SO. I realized I was doing it all wrong! Also, I looked up the 5 languages of love! I learned he NEEDS to be appreciated and respected in front of others (something I did not do!).

Instead of just being nice, dig deep. What were some of the things that really bugged her about you? It may be something past relationships have also brought up to you... Also, be who you were when you first met. The person she fell in love with.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017