I have a question. My W now has her own bank account. Last week she was going to give me my debit card and credit card back, me wanting to be the supportive H, said no, hold on to them just in case you need them (I thought maybe doing that was a 180). Now I am not going to offer her anymore help, because I want her to see what the world is like without me (my income, and my "controlling" ways on our money)Is it too late to ask for those back without any backlash? She has been using them here and there for lunch at work, cigarettes, ect. It is also convenient for her to use for gas to drop S off here. Where do I draw the line. Do I let her keep them, maybe every time she uses them she thinks, hmm..."I still do need him, I am glad he still lets me use these" or if I take them back and she needs money, "hmm...I still do need him, but that jerk took his bank cars back." As I said before me being "controlling" with the money was one of the major reasons for her leaving.
CO, don't you remember? you lost your bank card at that superfun place the other night. You'd better call the bank and have the old ones cancelled. Oh yeah, don't forget to tell your W that the one she has no longer works.
