My 2 cents, stop talking to them about W and your sitch. I know it is hard but family will find and ax to grind about our WAS. It is not helpful. I am slowly not venting to family and friends hard to do but we must. Imagine if you reconcile but said intimate stuff to those peoPle about our S and the R.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”