My 2 cents, stop talking to them about W and your sitch. I know it is hard but family will find and ax to grind about our WAS. It is not helpful. I am slowly not venting to family and friends hard to do but we must. Imagine if you reconcile but said intimate stuff to those peoPle about our S and the R.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden