Hey CO1978, unfortunately our situations seem very similar. From reading your posts it sounds like there is a big part of your wife that still wants your marriage to work. Just the fact that she is willing to go to marriage counseling seems like a great sign to me.
It really stinks that it took both of us losing everything to open our eyes, but now that we are aware hopefully we will not make the same mistakes in the future and our spouses will begin to see the good in us again.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11
