Hm, bookkeeper lady sent me an email. She'd asked me a short question yesterday, which I answered, and writes "OIC, you can ask me questions now if you want" Um, isn't that why I suggested we meet? Obviously, she's not ready to do that. I'm much better in person than shooting questions back and forth with a faceless lady. On the other hand, I also need to respect her caution and comfort level. So I asked her a couple about her job, where she lives and whether the "falls" she likes are Niagara Falls. My guess is she wants to gauge whether I'm really interested or will just drift off 'coz she's not ready to meet right away. I dunno. I'll play for a bit and see what happens.