Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Originally Posted By: Val
that I'm afraid I won't find anyone else as attractive as her.


Ahhh...and that is a real drag isn't it?

I know well this.

Would you accept a better looking woman who treated you worse?

My Mistake. I didn't mean just physically attractive but mentally and emotionally attractive.

BUT

I also don't feel w treats me the best so to answer the question - NO I wouldn't accept it. I wouldn't accept my w back either based on her actions.

I have my own theory that the more attractive you are the harder the journey to peace.

Peace comes from not gauging your happiness by what others think about you.

Oh so old and contrite...it comes from inside.

But why are we so willing to give beautiful people a mulligan.

She treats me like she sh!t BUT she is attractive.

There is no end of people who will put up with sh!t.

That is not you Val.

You have been here long enough to know that.

No that is definitely not me.

If she posts. Really bucks up and shows you how much she appreciates YOU.

That is the day I will accept this:

Originally Posted By: Val
that I'm afraid I won't find anyone else as attractive as her.



That will be the day I accept it also. So good to hear from you Grit. I read a little bit in your thread the other day. Hang in there.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.