Great advice- thanks Snodderly.
He did come to me this morning and ask me what I had planned for my son's birthday. I just told him that I was going to have it when we came back from our cruise. Then I walked away. He didn't ask any further.

I have a full weekend planned with the kids- and am really feeling great!

But, I did notice him do a double take when I left all dressed up for our women's christmas event at churc!


Me:37 H:44
M:13 T:17
S:8 D:9
H living in spare bedroom since 9/5/11