There is a part of me that wants to barrel through it. To decorate my house, buy a tree, listen and play Christmas music. To not give my w and my sitch so much power.....
I like this approach but you have to do what works for you. In my case, my S's and it's kind of like, "We're going to have a fantastic Christmas without you!". Almost an act of defiance, if you will.
Originally Posted By: Valeska19
that I'm afraid I won't find anyone else as attractive as her.
I guess it depends on how you define attractive. For me, I find my W treating me badly and going down the road of destruction as being very unattractive.
