Hello, I'm a WAW, but only because H has OW

[trustinginHim]

Hi Ron--nice to meet you, even though I would prefer to meet under much different circumstances than ours!

I read your thread in the Newcomers section. Wow. How I felt your pain all over again. My own pain is just becoming bearable with the help of antidepressants (I'm on two different ones!), counseling and especially this website. It still amazes me how when I follow a thread of someone describing their situation, it describes my H's behavior almost exactly. Very, very sad and rather eerie. Perhaps over time and after lots of reading the many threads here, I can learn to predict his upcoming behavior. It might be kinda fun freaking him out that way in the future!

In your thread, you mentioned that your W had told you that you were "trying too hard." My H has said those exact words to me. And he makes absolutely no sense either. Because of that, I will keep in mind your comment, "Believe none of what he say's and only half of what you see."

Keep in touch and I'll do the same! God Bless to you also.

LG