Wait a second...why doesn't my wife do the same when our son is at my place? Is that how little respect she has for me? Even less than a childcare provider?
One of the hardest things for me to get my brain around was the fact that the mother of my children didn't give a damn about me anymore. And I wish I had come to that realization, and accepted it, long before I did.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.