Somewhere between filing and D

[MichelleLT]

What do you mean "how you signed the final decree". That you signed it without a fight?

As for the student loans, you've sent proof and told her the correct amount. If she brings it up again try and be patient. You know she's not doing it on purpose. You can't control what she does or doesn't remember. She needs to figure out how to cope with that on her own.