UPDATE I can't believe my wife has so little respect for me (maybe it has something to do with her hatred, being a Type-A and the fact that she's going to be a full-blown doctor really soon). Here's what happened a couple of evenings ago:
She's out of town for exams and interviews in the East Coast for this entire week. On Wednesday evening she calls out of the blue, but we missed her call because I was giving our son a bath. I text her back later that night: "Sorry we missed you...it was bath night." I wasn't surprised she didn't respond.
This morning when I dropped our son off at daycare, the provider told me that my wife had called to talk to our son. I asked if my wife just called on a whim to chat. The provider said that my wife texted first to ask what time would be best to call.
Wait a second...why doesn't my wife do the same when our son is at my place? Is that how little respect she has for me? Even less than a childcare provider?
When my wife takes our son out of town, at least I inform her ahead of time when I would call to talk to him. Even then, she never kept to those times either.