And if that sounds weak... well, I believe it's the strongest thing in the world to forgive the person who is hurting you. It takes a strength of character and an abundance of love to go there.
However, when that someone is blindly hurting someone else I love the most (our son), that's a whole different story. My wife's decisions to this very day are making compromises with our son's life and stability.
I promise you that right now is not the time to be forgiving your wife. She's hurting you, and she's hurting your son. And she doesn't care. Use your anger toward her to provide you with energy to take positive actions that are in your best interest.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
