With that sense of entitlement, what I have seen with most of the whacked out women is that they do feel entitled throughout this, and they want the LBS to pay....and pay dearly.
They want us to pay with time lost with the children ( we don't deserve that ) , and they want us to pay monetarily ....
One way they can do both, is by having the kids more. That way they can justify getting the court to order more support money from the LBS.
In one of most whacked out things my Ex said, was in front of the mediator...
We were discussing custody, and things got heated between me and her Lawyer, and while things were cooling off a bit, she mumbled ( to herself, yet loud enough to hear ) , that she didn't care how much she had the kids, as long as she got paid...
Just remember that you are trying to make rational decisions , with an irrational person.
Anything that you BOTH agree on, get it signed right there and then. We reached an agreement ( in principal ) and did not sign that day. A week later, she denied almost everything that we discussed and had to start over again.
