I agree Crimson, I think just doing it is better than explaining why you're doing it. Explaining why comes with the subtext that it's for the other person in some way. If you're happy with the amended proposal, then your plan sounds like a good one.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015