I've been thinking tonight that I feel like I have this ability to be in a healthy relationship like I've always wanted now, whether that's with my W or with someone else. I have learned SO much over the last few years and especially over the last 10 months. I feel like I really know what I want, too. It's not it was when I was 26 when I got M'd. At the moment, the future's looking bright, no matter what happens.
I just started posting here but have been following your sitch, great work you're doing. Your son is so blessed.
After 9, almost 10 months, I am getting to same place. What a relief, huh? But the most important healthy relationship I'm working on is the one with me!
I think I first clicked on your story because of the 'nati, one of my favorite cities anywhere. I am originally from So Oh.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss