Luv- Sorry about the rough patch your going through, it must be extremely difficult. As someone mentioned previously and seems to be a rule on these threads "believe none of what she says". She is acting out of fear, anger, resentment, etc. I know it really hurts to hear her say things like that as my w does the same every now and then but I tell myself that those thoughts and comments are coming from someone who is hurt and confused and not from her true authentic self. Do your best to not let it antagonize you.