"have any of you, as you pass time with as a live-in WAS, find that you are having trouble remembering the feelings you had with your spouse before they walked away?
yes^^^^^^your brain plays tricks to protect you from pain. And yes, I never thought that my W would turn into this ( yes I challenged her to get a D in the heat of a fight). I went from being the love of her life to being a hated man? Living in the same house while being rejected and talked to in ways by your W that you never heard of before is super hard and painful.
If I were you I would stop reading her FB page it is only hurting you and making you assume things that may not be real. I assume that after many months of rejection and being cold that you start to let go and meet your own needs. Hang in there
Yes, thanks Rick. I am really getting (finally understanding) what DB'ing is and GAL. It is actually working. I do see (and my W would never admit this at this point) that is does turn her attention back to me in very small but noticable ways. I hope this is a sign of DB'ing working but I really do see the wisdom of doing this for me and my future as an individual.
