I would like this to be a 180 based off of her complaint about me "always having to get my way". I think those two simple modifcations to the plan she proposed would work. Thoughts? Would this get a decent reaction if presented as "We can use your proposal if I can suggest two minor fixes..."? I'm just throwing things against the wall right now and trying to DB my way out of a negative situation and TRY to make it into a postive where she walks away feeling good and I walk away feeling good as well.
Crimson
What if you tell her that you understand how and why she feels that you always want to get your way, and you tell her that you are working on this and want to reflect this growth in your dealings with custody. Let her hear and do with it what she will. Maybe it will open the door just a little bit.