Had dinner last night with a friend and she is a therapist as well. We were talking about my situation and she told me as long as the H is sleeping with someone else, that I don't have a chance to get him back. Well, that got me thinking, is she right? Also, if I am dark, how do I have a chance with him?
H sent me a text message last night.
H: If she had a nitemare about daddy, I can stop by for a bit to reassure her daddy's ok. I realize it might make things worse when I leave. Its up to you.
Me: thats not necessary
H: K
The reason for his text message last night was because yesterday morning our D was throwing such a fit to see her daddy. And I told him that she had a bad dream and woke up in the middle of the night. So H asked D if the dream was about him and she said yes. Keep in mind she is not quite 3 yet and she will say yes to anything.
So do I continue to stay dark with him? Any advice would be helpful.
