My former in-laws are very nice to me - they were never a real close family but always kind and loving. They fb me and I am still close to nieces and nephews. You are right though - needs to be on my terms and away from X and OW.
Thanks for helping me re-think this situation.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time