Don't know how much longer I can endure this!

[tested metal]

I agree Cat. That's why I told the story. It was to show that I am aware of my own shortcomings and how MY role affected the relationship. I am not proud of how i handled that and I am working on correcting that in the present. I was not trying to blame my W for what went on, but how my passive aggressiveness was not a good thing and is not excusable. I was trying to show the consequences of my actions.

The story may have been a bad example, but this is the most glaring example I can remember doing this.