Don't know how much longer I can endure this!

[tested metal]

i think mine is Physical touch but somehow I show love through acts of service. That sounds confusing but I truly feel loved when i get hugs, kisses, and I am a cuddler. I used to have to always ask for hugs from my mom as a child and I felt so loved getting them, so i am pretty sure that is my main language.

I think that I express love through Acts of service though. Probably because I learned that from my father. He would always work so hard to provide for us and we appreciated it.

As for my W, I can't really say what her language is. I think it is somewhere between quality time/ receiving gifts. She would complain a lot about not having enough time together, mainly due to us having to work two different shifts with no chance of changing it unless we switched professions.

As for the gifts, she always has to know what she is getting for birthday, Christmas, etc. and would pretty much complain if I did not bring home flowers every week. I did not bring home flowers because we could not afford it.

I used to make things for her when we first were dating, but I ran out of ideas and we both got busy with work and life. It's hard to keep coming up with that stuff.

Anyway that is about all I can come up with regarding the Love languages for now. It'd be nice if she took the assessment on the web site and gave me the results, but we all know that ain't gonna happen.