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Stop looking at her facebook page. That's going to be the hardest of all for me.


At some point in the past month my W must have added me to the filtered group of people who cannot see her status updates (for example SS in on this list too). At first it really hit me that she did this... but you know what? It's been a blessing. I often have Facebook up at work as I'm frequently tweaking any number of the FB pages that different programs I manage have. Before the block I would get the stream of updates from her or comments on other pages. Each one was like this little jab/reminder. Now... nothing. Granted I don't know what she's saying, but it's also out of sight/out of mind.

And either she doesn't care or she didn't think this through all the way... but she didn't block my mom or my niece. So when she does post something really out of character (well, in character for her now, but out of her old character) one of them usually calls me and asks what the heck is going on with W.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD