lostgirl,

Welcome!! Sorry you find yourself here, but it's a good place to be. Vent away! We all do, otherwise we'd explode.

Your situation is pretty much like many others on the boards. You will get some good insight and advice.

How lucky for you to get him to go to counseling. Hopefully, he will continue to go when it gets more "personal" or intense.

Get the books, and start studying.

Good luck, Pattie

When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.