Thanks for the support CO1978. As a big picture item, the main thing is that I did not drink, so that is still going well. You're right, it was too soon to invite her anywhere and I shouldn't have done it. It just kind of came out since she said she'd love to go and the conversation was going so well. We've been talking almost every day for the past week or so and I think I'm going to cut that off for a while. I'll talk to her if she initiates contact, but I think I've been coming on a little fast for the time being. It's so hard, as all of you know to not overstep when you're getting a positive response. I was able to talk to my counselor this afternoon and we came up with a few things.

No contact for at least 5 days and reevaluate at that point. That is, unless she initiates.

Don't make any decisions while I'm upset, such as ending my DB and starting to move on. I have time to evaluate that later.

Do some things for myself this weekend. I'm going to go hiking and do some much needed work around the house.

Stop looking at her facebook page. That's going to be the hardest of all for me.

Anyway, I stepped back and realized that I've come a long way. 2 months ago, I would have pressured her into an argument about our relationship and would have begged and pleaded for her to come back. At least I was able to exercise that self control and keep that out of it. So, we're not really any worse off than we were, but I think she sent the signal today to not pursue too much. My hope is that she is talking to me at all because she has feelings still. I mean, it'd be easy for her to never respond to me or tell me not to text her so I'm ok there for now. I just need to back off and let her initiate a few. I hate that, it's excruciating looking at my phone every time i get an email, text or phone call and hoping it's her. Thanks again everyone for the support. I will speak to my DB coach early next week and I've set a plan to make no contact with my EX until then at least (unless she initiates).