"Dont you get it, I'm broken!!"

That is exactly what he said to me. Do we have the same husband? LOL

I like what you said about Humpty Dumpty. Next time my husband tells me he is broken, I have to say that.

Mr. Bond did explain rather well.

He is coming over Saturday to help me move. I am not going to pursue him, but just be a friend. I sometimes wonder if going dark is a good idea.

emphasize doing what works to rebuild your friendship with H first. Definitely dont pursue but if you have an opportunitity to communicate with H use it as an opportunitity to show the new fabulous YOU.


I agree with you here.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)