My H told me he was broken after ILYBNILWY. Each time I begged him to come back he said "Dont you get it, I'm broken!!" I wish I said back then "what your Humpty dumpty now". My D3 would have cracked up.

Anyway I too am confused as to WTF it means. I thought MrB explaination worked.

I think this board really emphasizes going dark but I dont think the DB coaches always emphasize that. For me the DB coaches emphasize doing what works to rebuild your friendship with H first. Definitely dont pursue but if you have an opportunitity to communicate with H use it as an opportunitity to show the new fabulous YOU.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13