yes, that 'savior' mentality is something I've noticed is rampant here on the board and one of my W's complaints also. JB has a handle on DBing like a pro and i watch his moves to see how a pro reacts/or well, acts.

If they don't get a reality check, and WAS are allowed to keep hanging on to LBS for money, emotional support, etc... why change their path? Cake eating defined.

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed