Just out of curiosity, what did your L say about this:

"and is sayin she deserves to be the custodian because I'm on AD's and seeing a counselor"

Is that a damaging fact or not? What did the L say about your W's affair WRT the divorce?

Thanks,

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015