Nice! I should really try this. I keep lending W money, even though one of the reasons she left me was because I wouldn't let her control her own money. Apparently if she could "control" her money she wouldn't need to be borrowing from me. I think our natural instinct is "W is in danger, I will save you!"
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped