On LuvHurt's thread, Mach1 was suggesting that if you are headed for a court hearing on custody, you should start keeping a journal of the time you are spending with your kids and the activities you're doing. The courts like to maintain status quo and limit disruption, so if you have documentation of your "custody trend" that can't hurt.

It's painful to think in these terms and prepare for the worst, but sometimes it's the pragmatic thing to do.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015