Nope. However we spend every weekend together and effectively co-parent the kids. We are like a couple just not living together. She's got her own issues to deal with and I understand.
"is she still with om?"
No. She worked with him up until 2 years ago when he retired. He was twice her age.
"Do you ever discuss your situation on here?"
Yes I do. In fact, you've asked me about my sitch a number of times and I've repeated it several times. I've been through the same stuff you have. I just don't throw it in your face about it like you did to me.
The main thing that I learned is understanding, compassion and tolerance. I accept my W for who she is. All your H wants is to have someone understand him. Who are you to judge how someone "should" live? You married him didn't you? There's that clause about "for better or worse". You don't like him judging you after all.
"I feel stuck in a way because i cant work more because it would effect the amount of alimony i would get,"
So you want to be dependent on him forever. Okay. You're also saying this because you want him to suffer. You want him to suffer financially because you "can't find work".
"even if i could find work in this economy.."
B@ll$hit on this. You haven't tried everything. You blame alot of people and outside circumstances for your sitch. Your R isn't doing better not because of your H's faith. You don't have faith in yourself. And I'm not talking about the D.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
