I know how hard this is on you, on all of us. But if you can still picture yourself in counseling with your W and have hope for a new M for both of you then maybe it is too soon for Match.com or that type of thing. It will only confuse you more, and ultimately won't help your sitch.
You said "Maybe her finding out I was out with someone else might make her think.".... I don't know about this, doesn't feel like DB
Hang in there witz, each day brings a new chance and you never know what tomorrow will bring. Just don't look too far down the road, it is too overwhelming
