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Originally Posted By: whatisis
I have a dream that one day this lonely STB single man will rise up and live out the true meaning of a relationship.

I'm confident that you will. You know so much more now.


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Originally Posted By: whatisis
I have a dream that one day this lonely STB single man will rise up and live out the true meaning of a relationship.

I'm confident that you will. You know so much more now.


Yeah, I should know enough to stay single! Lol


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This is what I got for you Wii. If your last version of your dating profile was real, I cannot imagine many women will ever respond positively to it. You make yourself into a joke. Just not attractive.


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OT might have something there, Wii. It's okay to be fun and humorous, but don't be a clown. Try and have the odd serious thing to say on your profile. (I haven't seen it, but if it's that one about Christmas gifts, etc. then not sure if that's the right approach.)


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I forgot to mention that I pulled the Christmas profile after one day and went back to my original. I felt it wasn't the message I wanted to send.


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A little hasty with the bookkeeper, she just emailed me and said she'd like to get to know me.


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Hm, interesting. Bookkeeper lady had six very nice photos of herself posted e.g. picking raspberries, at a concert etc but I noticed yesterday she pulled them all and went with the no profile picture look. That brings up a caution light for me. Why? So I emailed her and thanked her for getting back to me, said I'd be interested in getting to know her too. I also mentioned her photos and that I was curious as to why she'd pulled them. I ended with a light remark mentioning that her real face is so much prettier than that blank profile picture smile I've read that people cheating will frequently hide behind the no profile picture look...so, if she wants to meet me she'll give me a reasonable reply and if she doesn't then she won't. I'm OK either way.


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I learned many years ago in my brief career in law enforcement, if a situation doesn't feel right, don't walk into it! Strangely enough, last week I was meeting with a client, a convicted sex offender, and he naturally claims he was innocent of any wrong doing (I've yet to meet one who says "yeah, I did it, my bad"). I looked at him and said "I've been in this business a long time and I've learned that where there's smoke there's fire and you've got enough smoke coming from you to be a forest fire!" So, with the bookkeeper, I'd rather be cautious and if that bothers her, too bad. I'm not walking into something blind just 'coz I see a pretty face especially when I've got those caution lights flashing. She was going on about "open communication" and the need for "honesty", so here's her chance to walk the walk! If not there's always that harem of Asian Social Workers out there waiting lol.


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OK, bookkeeper lady says that if men are interested in getting to know her they will be interested in her profile and then want to see pictures. Um, OK...right! I don't think she'll get squat with that theory but... She asked me what made me interested in her? I said that her pictures showed an attractive and interesting lady who liked to pick raspberries! I also mentioned the things she wrote about like asking if there really is a "right one" or what we do with our baggage interested me. We'll see.


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We've been trading emails. She seems like a nice lady. I've offered to meet her on Sunday, we'll see.


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