Mid life crisis is a process for both the mid-lifer and the stander. There are no quick fixes over night for either. Time is the key for both. Through time I learned to effectively deal with my mid-lifer. Through time and pain, I learned to see the things I needed to change about myself. Through time, I learned to see my strengths. Through time, I learned what I wanted out of ths life. Through time, I learned that I could be happy without him and take care of myself and my children.
This journey is the hardest thing you will do. You have to stop worrying about him because nothing can fix him but him. People who hurt, hurt others. Let him work through his journey and concentrate on being who you are, not what you think he wants you to be.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
