Bit nervous today, as I have a meeting with the court tomorrow. It is a status conference, where the judge sees where the D stands. My W's L was supposed to send me financial disclosure materials to fill out, but I have not received anything. I have no idea what kind of paperwork her L will have ready for me tomorrow. W will not attend, as she is very far away. I am going to fill out my own financial disclosure statement, so I am ready in front of the judge.

Funny to be in this place after 20 years of a relationship. Makes it all seem so small and insignificant.

Need to work on that PMA and GAL to avoid the vortex.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012