S14 is becomeing increasingly more defiant instead of sad, the anger is really starting to show and takeing over the sadness. We talk a lot but I dont know how to help him with the anger, other then show by example that its not the way to handle things and just be positive about what we are dealing with.
Defiance IS his sadness. As is the anger. I'd be more worried if he wasn't showing anger. Depression is anger turned inward... I think it's healthy that he's verbalizing his upset about not having your H with you.
Sounds like your son is gathering what's going on, even if he doesn't know exactly.
I don't know what to say about spouses hurting the ones' they supposedly love, but they do. They are so frikkin alien, that they just don't have a clue the damage they are causing.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
