GAL still going well (with and without kids) Bowling this week was very good (got my second highest score ever, 181, and had 6 strikes and 2 spares LOL)
House is spotless, with no junk or washing lying around.
Discussions with the kids have been excellent, and we all say how relaxed thing are at home, no arguing, shouting, just fun times.
I must admit, the place is a completely different atmosphere since W left, so calm and happy.
I am no longer walking on eggshells or having W shout at me or the kids, its so relaxed.
Kids have requested that we have Christmas dinner at home together, just the 3 of us, and to have a great fun day (I am going to come up with a game for the kids to find extra presents LOL, which they are really excited about) as we were invited to my mums.
I just don't know if I will even consider their being an US again, if that option materialises!
I will not go back to how it was, no matter what happens at the end of this chapter of my life.
I am happy with who I am, and what I have. I know what I want long term from a partner (when the time is right)
I have learnt so much already, with more still to learn.
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more