Journaling now

W finally collected the bloody Christmas tree which had been waiting in the hall for the last two weeks. W text me Thursday saying she would be round tonight with S12 to collect it, I replied a few hours later when I saw the text saying it wasn't convenient tonight, so she collected it the following evening.

The kids returned on Sunday after being with their mum for the usual 4 nights every two weeks, and told me the usual stuff....

So even after my communications with her via email on Friday, she is still doing the same stuff (just not directly to me atm)

Kids said W had been saying......

W hasn't been happy now for the entire 16 years we had been together (married 12, kids 14 & 12!!!!), so that went 2,3,5, 15 and now finally to the maximum 16years  LOL
Not to talk about the old house (we moved from 6 years ago) as she had no happy memories from there (even though she always said that house felt like a proper home)
That as I purchased a new PS3 (for the one she took) I obviously had money, so was going to take me for more.

She still cannot see that she is still alienating the kids

Then D14 told me that on Thursday evening after they went shopping, W told them she had to drop something off at the house across from me (she never has before, or even used to speak to them). W drove round, stopped to see if my car was on the drive (at the back of the house) then drove past very slowly not even stopping, or looking at the house on the left, but continued to look at my house on the right to try and see what I was up to and to see if there was a car parked out the front!!!!!!!

D14 also told me that W had spent loads of money at a clothes show, and that they both had their nail professionally done. Then told me W has now got the complete Sky HD TV package......... and she goes on about having no money.

W text me Thur evening out the blue, just to tell me that a mutual friend fb account had been hacked!!!!

D14 has been texting W again, asking to see her Christmas day, but W keeps saying no. And she goes on about the kids not wanting to be with her!!!!


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more