West

I have been off boards for some time and don't have time to read all what's up.

But

if I take that last few posts as status quo

Are you done?

I don't mean in a hanging on sort of whipped way.

That's how we come here.

It is a journey to move into YOU.

Into what you beleive and want.

Sometimes we can let the attention of others make us feel better about what we don't like about ourselves which is highlighted by our spouse leaving.

If

You haven't come "into your own" so to speak

if

you haven't dug into why things went the way they did.

if

you haven't and don't know who you are then the same dude is going to f@ck up again.

or worse and more likely the case...

you find someone that accepts that flawed person you will never ultimately be comfortable being.

So where are you my friend?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am