Well my wife texted me tonight saying she wanted to talk. I asked her about what and she said "I don't know". We texted about my son some and I said it would be nice if she could at least tell me what she wanted to talk about. She again said I don't know and said she was gathering her thoughts about what she wanted to talk about. I told her to gather her thoughts and let me know. I also said by her vagueness that I can only assume certain things but I will give her the benefit of the doubt.
I think she is either giving me D papers or she is going to come begging back. In any case it is too late. I'm done with the anger, the throwing of stuff, the verbal abuse, the walking on eggshells, and the impossibility of making her happy. She is mentally unstable and I'm not dealing with it anymore. I'm moving ahead with my L and moving ahead with my life. She will have to deal with her demons with someone else. She is unwilling to get help or be honest with herself or the ones that love her. I'm done living a life which I thought was just a normal marriage R things but really was a roller coaster that was impossible to ever get off of. I see it now and I'm ready to move on.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012