I think you are doing the best you can given the circumstances. It is nice to see glimmers of progress from your W, so count that as a positive and note it in your solution journal including what you did or didn't do to generate the positive response.
I think for all of us, the important thing to remember is that time is our friend because time, and lots of it is what is needed to turn the R ship around.
Keep it going!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife