Yes 25, I do feel somewhat relieved about the custody thing. I was under the impression that I was pretty much out in the cold in this state-- I'm SOOOO glad they actually take the CHILD's welfare into consideration. that's really all that matters anyway!
I was also very relieved that I can get a house (this one hopefully) on my own. Whew. Absolutely knowledge is power. My stress level immediately went down.
S had a Christmas play tonight he 'sang' in. W, my mom, MIL and I all went. S was funny, and we found ourselves laughing --- it really was like old times. Then I remembered= as soon as we left she pulled out the damn phone and started texting OW---and STILL is. We are getting ready to put S to bed, then I will go to my room and do some work.
Funny thing--- as a professed agnostic, I still send S to a private religious school which is part of a church. So basically i went to an advent service tonight, with a play. LOL. Perhaps God really does work mysteriously. I enjoyed it-- the service was nice, and it felt peaceful. Calming. S loves his school and I want to continue to send him there until high school, so i guess we'll both get a lot of religion in the meantime.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
