Never thought I'd be here........

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I believe him when he denies recalling that. He even said he'd "never say something like that."

I KNOW he said it. I can tell you where I was standing and what I was doing

That's funny 25, my W also denied saying that she wouldn't reconcile. I found that very odd because it had such a huge impact on me when she said it. Just another example of how people rewrite history to help them cope.

Crimson, all you can do about your parts is work on them. Whatever it was you did that aggrevated your W, stop doing it, because it will aggrevate someone new too.

WRT your parents, you obviously "get it" and will appreciate that they care for you and take their advice with a grain of salt. No one can understand this situation or your feelings who hasn't been in it.

Before I got cheated on, I assumed that people who get cheated on get angry and leave. I discovered that people who get cheated on actually assume the guilt, get exceedingly sad, and tend to pursue to get their spouse back. Ironic right? The commonly held beliefs and assumptions of your parents and your friends are often just plain wrong and they cannot relate to you and how you are feeling right now.

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