The point of everyone's post to you wasn't that you need to compromise what you believe in. It's that you should (again you don't have to) try to be a little more understanding of other people's POV. In the case of your son, what if he did start liking heavy metal or was gay or whatever. You don't have to take a person's personal beliefs as your own, but you don't have a right to judge them just as much as you wouldn't want them to judge you.
This doesn't just apply to your H. The other men you went out with (which you said weren't dates) you were critical of them as well.
If you want to find true and honest love, that's a big hurdle that should be overcome IMHO. No one wants to go out with someone whom they think judges them. You have standards, sure. But so do they.
"I dont think you have changed. maybe you were critical of your wife thats what she didnt like"
For the record, she had an A with her boss right after she had our second daughter. Borderline post-partum and MLC. That's why she left.
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